<p style="text-align: justify;">Dementia can be devastating. It affects everyone differently, and you’ll need an understanding of how its going to affect your parents if you want to make sure they get the care and treatment they need. They took care of you when you needed them the most, and now it’s your turn to return the favor.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">If you want your parent with dementia to be able to make the most of his or her life, you’ll need to do some research and make some changes.</p>
<h1 class="western" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;"><b>1. Simplify Their Living Arrangements </b></span></h1>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Adjustments and changes are hard for people living with dementia. If you’d like to downsize their home or move them into a disability accessible apartment, you’ll be better off doing it as soon as possible. As the dementia progresses, the changes will only be harder. Your parent may not understand why they’re moving, and may not understand their new environment when they wake up. If you want to keep them in the same house, make sure it’s as safe as possible.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;"><b>2. Help Them With Their Finances </b></span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">People with dementia have difficulty managing money. They may forget what bills they’re responsible for and how much is going to be due. They may make impulsive purchases that <span style="color: #0563c1;"><span lang="zxx"><u>don’t fit into their budgets</u></span></span>, or they may fail to make necessary purchases, like groceries. Keep a close eye on the bank accounts.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">If you can, set up automatic payment for the bills that will come up every month, like the utilities or health insurance. Grocery shop for your parent when you grocery shop for yourself.</p>
<h1 class="western" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;"><b>3. Understand Their Care Requirements </b></span></h1>
<p style="text-align: justify;">You might want to get a caregiver to visit your parent with dementia. If you have the time and resources, it might be worthwhile to <span style="color: #0563c1;"><span lang="zxx"><u>become an enrolled nurse</u></span></span>. Your parent with dementia might forget you over time, but their memory of you will be stronger than their memory of a caregiver that was a stranger until a short time ago. You’ll be able to provide adequate care for the parent if you live together.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;"><b>4. Help Them Keep Track of Their Appointments </b></span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Dementia requires a lot of medical care. Your parent will need to regularly see specialists to assess the progression of their condition and intervene when necessary. Make sure they get back and forth to their appointments safely, that the appropriate follow up appointments are scheduled, and that your parent is taking all of the necessary medications prescribed to them.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">You’ll also need to keep a close eye on the quality of their care. If you <span style="color: #0563c1;"><span lang="zxx"><u><a href="http://incrediblemag.com/how-to-act-if-you-suspect-medical-negligence.htm">suspect medical neglect</a></u></span></span>, you need to intervene immediately. Your parent with dementia may not realize that their doctor is mistreating them.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;"><b>5. Have a Backup Plan </b></span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">If you can’t handle all of the care on your own and home care services aren’t enough, you may want to consider <span style="color: #0563c1;"><span lang="zxx"><u><a href="http://incrediblemag.com/tips-for-choosing-a-nursing-home.htm">finding a nursing home</a></u></span></span> that’s equipped to deal with your parent’s special needs. Your parent may be resistant to the idea, but it could be the best thing for them. As long as you stay in regular correspondence with the nursing home and visit as often as possible, you’re doing the right thing. Don’t be so stubborn that you wind up standing in between your parent with dementia and their need for constant care.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Though things may be hard, remember to be as loving and supporting as possible. Your parent will have good days and bad days. At times, your parent may even forget who you are. Don’t take it personally. Love them the best that you can.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><b>About the Author:</b></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Audrey Robinson is a careers, health and traveling blogger, always ready and happy to visit new and uncharted places. Feel free to find her on <span style="color: #0563c1;"><span lang="zxx"><u>@AudreyyRobinson</u></span></span>.</p>

Living with Dementia – 5 Tips to Help Your Aging Parents
